In last week’s edition of Retirement Watch Weekly, we discussed ways to construct a will to maximize the inheritance you pass on to your heirs. In this week’s, we’ll continue exploring this topic.
Know your Children & Anticipate Issues with Your Estate
Naming the oldest adult child as executor of an estate is very common and often works fine.
It is a big problem, however, when the children have a history of animosity or there is some rivalry. It is not unusual for children who were able to behave civilly while their parents were alive to go to war after a parent’s death.
The results are an irreconcilable family and money wasted on attorneys’ fees. If you have any doubts about your children’s ability to get along after you are gone, name someone outside the family as executor.
When You Should Limit Specific Bequests
A specific bequest gives certain property to a certain person. Specific bequests are appropriate for valuable or unique items.
But putting a lot of specific bequests in your will causes problems. You have to update your will every time you lose, sell, or give away one of the items.
How are you sure that the children are getting equal shares?
What happens if an item can’t be located after your death?
What happens to items that somehow didn’t get named in your will?
What happens when the market changes the total value of your estate?
The specific bequests could leave your family with less than you intended.
It is better to limit specific bequests to valuable items and those you know have meaning to certain individuals.
Then have all the other items disposed in the “residuary clause.” This is the clause that says “all the remainder or residue or my estate goes to…”
Normally this clause divides the property among the surviving spouse or the children.
Choose the Right Method for Dividing your Heirs
The residuary estate often is divided equally among the children or other loved ones.
The trick is choosing a method for dividing the property that works best for your heirs.
Choose the wrong method, and you’ll divide the loved ones along with your property. I give specific suggestions for dealing with this issue later in the book.
Keep up with the times
Your estate planner needs to know of any changes in your family and your wealth. You need to meet with your estate planner when a child or grandchild is born, when there is a marriage or divorce, and when someone dies.
Changes might need to be made if you move to another state. Also check with your estate planner when the amount of your wealth changes or when you sell a significant asset.
Establish your domicile
A state that has death taxes will tax the estate of anyone who was “domiciled” there at the time of death. Domicile is a technical legal term. In most states it means the place in which you intended to live indefinitely. The state of residence is where you actually lived.
That creates problems for those who split the year between two or more states and also for people who largely moved to a new state but did not sever all their ties with the original state of domicile.
In some cases, two (or more) states each will claim the deceased was domiciled within its borders, and each will assess full taxes on the estate.
Don’t leave your heirs in this position. Decide which state you want to be your domicile and find out how to legally establish that domicile. Then document those steps.
States generally look at voter registration, vehicle registration, and driver’s license addresses.
Unfortunately, a few states essentially require you to sever all ties. Some will claim you were domiciled there if you retain a property such as your old residence, even if you rent it to others or rarely visit.
If you split time between two or more states and at least one has a death tax, be sure to establish a domicile and document it.
When you take the time to craft the perfect will, the administration of your estate will go smoothly and won’t affect how loved ones remember you.
But a mistake or poor planning could result in bad blood among your survivors and bad memories of you.
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