Financial Advice for Retirement, Social Security, IRAs and Estate Planning

Eight Key Estate Planning Questions

Last update on: Jun 17 2020
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Estate Planning is not about reducing estate taxes. That always was the case, but few people realized the importance of the non-tax factors until the 2001 tax law began the phase out of the estate tax.

Every estate plan, regardless of the estate’s size, needs to address certain issues. Ignore these issues, and your heirs will be worse off than they need to be. Tax issues, if there are any, should be considered only after the following issues are confronted.

What is the estate? Estate planning is getting assets to one’s objects of affection in the most efficient and lowest cost-way possible, and in the most appropriate ownership form. The first step is to develop a complete, clear description of your assets and liabilities. The estate also cannot be administered efficiently unless the executor or administrator knows what is in the estate. Frequently, it costs too much and takes too much time to administer an estate because the estate planning process failed to provide the administrator with details about the estate.

Prepare a statement of your assets and liabilities. List all your assets, including intangible assets, such as trusts of which you are a beneficiary and life insurance. Describe the property clearly, estimate its value, and state where your records on it are kept. Update the list at least annually. Be sure your estate planning administrator knows where to find the list.

Who is in charge? An estate needs an administrator or executor. The name depends on the state, but the job essentially is the same. This person is legally responsible for getting the estate through the probate process, paying debts, selling assets as needed, and distributing the property as directed by the will.

Traditionally your estate planning lawyer is named the executor. But in most states that entitles the executor to a percentage of the estate, regardless of the amount of work involved. To keep costs low, the best choice often is a responsible family member or friend of the family who will waive any fee or work for a reasonable fee. An attorney can be hired by the hour to handle the difficult or technical work.

This is an important appointment and should be carefully considered.

Who should share in the estate? Usually it is an easy choice to give the bulk of the estate to the surviving spouse and then to the children and perhaps grandchildren. But that isn’t always the case.

Sometimes serious thought is given to leaving a child out of the estate. Many families have a child whose behavior concerns the others. In most states a child can be disinherited completely. First, consider two other options. One option is to leave the property in a trust. Another family member or friend can distribute income and principal according to the trust guidelines. We have discussed such trusts in past visits. Another option is to leave the individual less than a full share of the estate. Provide in the will that this individual loses even that amount if he or she challenges the will and loses. The trick is to find an amount the individual won’t want to risk losing.

Blended families also present dilemmas. One example: Should stepchildren be included in your will, or are they already provided for by their biological parents?

Some people consider putting special friends or charities in the will. In that case it is key to let other natural heirs know about the choice. They should not be surprised by the will, so they will not misunderstand the reasons for your actions.

Should shares be equal? It is natural to leave children equal shares of the estate. Some parents want to leave less to children who have had more financial success than other children on the theory that they do not need the money. Unfortunately, if this intention is not clearly explained ahead of time, they often view it as being punished for success or an indication that the parents had more affection for the others. An option is to equally split about 80% of the estate and put the rest in a reserve trust. Let the trustee distribute that money according to needs or other standards you set. Another issue is whether higher lifetime gifts or other help for one offspring should be offset by the inheritance.

Leaving equal shares can be difficult when a family business is involved. There often are conflicts between the children who are running the business and those who aren’t. One solution is to provide life insurance benefits for those children not running the business or that enables those in the business to buy out the others. Another option is to give the children not in the business equal shares of equity and income but no voting interest.

How much to give now? The old estate tax put a premium on using lifetime gifts to reduce an estate. Now, fewer estates need lifetime gifts to keep the estate tax bill low.

Lifetime gifts still can be valuable. Loved ones won’t have to wait to use your wealth to improve their lives, and you get to see the results. Some people use lifetime gifts to see how loved ones will use the money. This can help determine if the estate will be given outright or in a trust.

The traditional approach is to leave the bulk of the estate to your spouse with the children inheriting later. But the children might have needs in the meantime, such as wedding expenses or the down payment on a home. You might want to provide the children cash for such expenses if that can be done without depriving your spouse.

Lifetime gifts take many forms other than straight gifts of cash or property. You can pay tuition bills, contribute the down payment on a home, help start a business, or pay medical expenses. A popular gift is to pay for all or part of a family vacation.

When making lifetime gifts, be sure to retain enough to maintain your standard of living, including possible emergencies. You need to assume that at least one spouse will live well into his or her eighties.

Should there be controls or incentives? When an heir is too young or otherwise unable to handle wealth responsibly, it is appropriate to give the property through a trust or with other restrictions. You need to decide which gifts and bequests should be made in this way, what the restrictions should be, and when, if ever, they should be lifted. If some heirs will receive unrestricted bequests while others do not, you should explain this in advance.

In the last decade or so, incentive giving became more popular. Generally, property is left in trust and doled out to heirs as they meet certain goals. Distributions might occur upon graduating from college or staying employed for a minimum time. Some people believe incentive trusts resolve the dilemma of how to give while ensuring children become responsible citizens.

Others, however, believe incentive trusts are too controlling or inflexible. If you use this tool, be sure the effect is not to channel children into activities they don’t really like or that are unsuitable for them. In addition, be aware that at some point the children likely will resent and feel stifled by the restrictions. An incentive trust should not be set up to last forever.

What about special assets? You might have a collection, personal mementoes, or other assets that mean a lot to you but not as much to your loved ones. Or the loved ones might not have the time or expertise to continue caring for the property or even to ensure receiving maximum value from selling the asset.

Give careful thought to such assets. Some people find it best to sell the asset themselves. Others line up a charity or someone else who eventually will buy or receive the asset.

Personal mementoes and effects, even when they have no real financial value, often cause the worst estate disputes. Be sure your estate planning establishes how such assets will be distributed among your heirs. We have discussed alternatives in past visits, and these are available on the web site Archive.

Is it good enough? Some people never finish a will or their estate planning, because they do not find the perfect answers to these questions. It is better to complete an estate plan in stages than to not have nothing in place while you wait for the ideal solution.



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